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Relationship Series: The Power of Love!

October 25, 2026 Dr. Allen Holmes

Following Jesus teaches us to love as He loves, pursuing what is good for others and allowing His love to transform our hearts, relationships, and actions.

REVIEW: What is Love?

READ:1 JOHN 4:8“But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”

DISCUSS: How do our personal expectations influence what we consider love, and how does God's example challenge our understanding of what it means to truly love someone?

REVIEW: How can we grow in Love for God and each other?

READ: 1 JOHN 4:19“We love each other because he loved us first.”

DISCUSS: What experiences have helped you understand God's love more deeply, and how have those experiences shaped your ability to love others?

REVIEW: What difference can Love make?

READ: JOHN 13:34-35“So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”

DISCUSS: How might the way we treat people, especially those who are difficult or different from us, influence their understanding of Jesus and His love?

ASK

What relationships in your life are challenging you to love more like Jesus, and how might pursuing what is truly good for others change the way you approach them?

PRAY

Heavenly Father, thank You for loving us first and showing us what true love looks like through Jesus. Help us recognize where our love has become conditional or self-centered, and transform our hearts to see and treat others as You do. Teach us to love with compassion, humility, and intentionality so that others may experience Your love through us, in Jesus' name, Amen.

INVITATION TO RESPOND

The invitation this week is to grow in our love for God and others by experiencing His love, changing how we see people, and intentionally pursuing their good; here are some ways you can respond:

  • Meditate on Love: Choose a Scripture that reveals God's love and spend time in prayer reflecting on what it teaches you about Him.
  • Examine Motives: Consider your closest relationships and honestly evaluate whether your actions are motivated by what others can do for you or by a genuine desire for their good.
  • Change Perspective: Intentionally look at others through God's eyes, recognizing their value and dignity regardless of their differences, struggles, or what they can offer you.
  • Love Intentionally: Identify someone you can encourage, serve, or support this week, demonstrating love through actions that prioritize their good without expecting anything in return.
  • Reflect and Apply: Journal what God is teaching you about love, share your reflections with someone, and identify ways to apply what you are learning.

As we experience God's love, we learn to see, treat, and love others like Jesus, helping them experience His love through us.

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